Packing for a family trip is one thing—packing when you’re the only adult is another level entirely. Whether you’re a single parent, or like me, often travelling solo with the kids due to your partner’s work schedule, getting organised before take-off is key to staying sane.
Over the past few years, I’ve learnt what works (and what really doesn’t) when it comes to packing for me and my two boys. Here are my favourite tried-and-tested tips for mums travelling without backup.
1. Pack Light—But Smart You’ll be the one lifting the bags, pushing the trolley, and keeping an eye on the kids. Choose a medium-sized suitcase and pack outfits that mix and match. Don’t overpack—you can always do a small wash on holiday.
2. Use Packing Cubes One cube per child, one for you, and one for shared items like swimwear or bedtime things. It helps keep chaos at bay when you’re trying to find that one missing sock.
3. Backpack Instead of Handbag You need your hands free. A decent backpack will hold snacks, passports, wipes, tech, and the all-important emergency toy. Bonus: it spreads the weight across your back.
4. Roll, Don’t Fold Rolling clothes saves space and reduces wrinkles. I even roll underwear inside outfits so I can just grab a full set for each day.
5. The ‘First Night’ Grab Bag Pack one small tote or pouch with PJs, toothbrushes, wipes, and a change of clothes. If your luggage gets delayed or you arrive late, you can settle in without digging through suitcases.
6. Shoes: 3 Max One pair for walking, one for water, and one that can double up for evenings. That’s it. Don’t be tempted to overpack shoes—they eat space and add weight.
7. Snacks > Toys Pack light toys or download shows, but always over-pack snacks. Tired + hungry kids = trouble. Snacks save lives.
8. Don’t Forget Yourself A book, face wipes, a lip balm, and your favourite tea bags. You’re the trip manager—you deserve a little comfort too.
Bonus Tip: Create a Checklist You Reuse I keep a reusable digital checklist and print a hard copy for the boys to tick off. It keeps them involved and teaches them about preparation.
You don’t need a perfectly packed suitcase—you just need one that works for you. Start with the essentials, simplify where you can, and remember that your energy is just as important as what’s in the bag.