Travelling solo with your kids doesn’t mean doing everything alone. It means planning smart, preparing well, and leaning into the freedom that comes with choosing your own path. As a mum who often travels without my partner due to work commitments, I’ve learned a lot about how to make our adventures smooth, joyful, and as stress-free as possible.
Here’s exactly how I plan our trips:
1. Choose the Right Destination (for All of Us)
The first thing I consider is: Will this destination work for me and the kids? That means checking for:
- Short flight or easy travel route
- Family-friendly vibe
- Walkable areas or good public transport
- Safe accommodation options near shops or beaches
I don’t aim for perfection. I aim for ease.
Some of our favourite spots so far? Santa Ponsa in Majorca, the Kent coast, and Lisbon’s quieter neighbourhoods.
2. Keep the Itinerary Light
When it’s just me with the kids, I never overpack our days. I aim for one planned activity per day max — and plenty of space for rest, snacks, and spontaneous play.
It took me a while to let go of the idea that we needed to “do it all”. But honestly? Slow travel is better with kids.
3. Book with Confidence
I always:
- Book flights early in the day
- Choose accommodations with kitchens or breakfast included
- Make sure I can walk or take public transport to main attractions
- Avoid anything that requires a car seat or extra logistics
I use filters, reviews from other parents, and always trust my gut.
4. Pack Like a Pro
I rely on my Printable Packing Checklist for Solo Mums — and keep our bags minimal but practical:
- Easy mix-and-match outfits
- Travel games, headphones, and comfort items
- A grab bag for the first night with pyjamas, snacks, wipes, and toothbrushes
Packing for one adult and two kids is no joke. But the key is: don’t overpack. Prioritise ease.
5. Prep the Kids Ahead of Time
Whether it’s showing them the plane online or role-playing airport security, I always prep my children with:
- What the travel day will look like
- What to do if we get separated
- What behaviour I need from them
The more I involve them early, the better the trip goes.
Final Thought:
Planning travel as a solo mum might take a bit more prep, but it brings so much freedom. I call the shots. I follow our rhythm. And I get to make memories that are entirely ours.
If you’ve been thinking about it, start small. A weekend away. A train ride. A change of scenery.
You’ve got this — and I’m cheering you on.